tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4618827323916031800.post3135262594440897808..comments2014-09-27T15:54:44.127-07:00Comments on SeeLisaWrite: Theoriesseelisawritehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03192140443718057984noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4618827323916031800.post-19340010378295837612011-07-13T21:06:57.640-07:002011-07-13T21:06:57.640-07:00You guys are sooo... funny! Have a wonderful time...You guys are sooo... funny! Have a wonderful time of just enjoying your boys, even the bigger ones!<br /><br />Mom SeatterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4618827323916031800.post-47800516521125708352011-07-13T10:55:25.077-07:002011-07-13T10:55:25.077-07:00Ohhhh Donita! I feel your pain and am also glad th...Ohhhh Donita! I feel your pain and am also glad that you can weed through all the "theories" and just be with Levi! That takes courage!!! I love the onesie idea...I think there are a lot of moms out there that would buy one.... I think maybe they should also come in bigger boy sizes!!!(Wink, Wink!)Lisahttp://seelisawrite.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4618827323916031800.post-75521600812549232912011-07-13T10:14:02.267-07:002011-07-13T10:14:02.267-07:00This has hit a nerve for me Lisa! I’ve never enco...This has hit a nerve for me Lisa! I’ve never encountered more theories than I have now as a mom to a fussy baby. Everyone has ideas of what worked for them, or things I should try. Some have been more sensitive in their approach than others. I’ve appreciated people’s concern (really!) and I’ve done more than my own share of research into theories. Joel and I joked about getting a onesie made that says “Yes, Mommy’s tried that”.<br /><br />Eventually, I reached a point of frustration with fussy baby theories, and the constant experimentation, and decided I would just “be” with my baby, whatever his mood. I wanted to be free of striving for the miracle cure! That, and he’s really gotten much happier with time ☺<br /><br />This experience has made me much more aware and sensitive to the number of times I’ve used my own experiences and ideas as a reference point for what others should do – and how often I’ve shared that! It’s made me more aware of how wonderful “How are you really doing?” feels compared with “Hey, you should try…”<br /><br />Woah. Sorry for the essay. Thanks for the outlet to share!donitanoreply@blogger.com